I have been married for 20 years. Our sex life started getting
boring years ago my wife never was interested in my bondage games because she is
not dominate , the session went on too long for her & not long enough for
me, also knots can be complicated. After getting a computer I became
interested in tease and denial which progressed to chastity.
Tammad (RIP), Altairboy &"Tease and Denial" sites became
my regular haunts. In reflection I built up the need for chastity
just like tease and denial works me up. Finally I asked my wife if
she would just try it. She pacified me by saying yes she would
consider it. I then down loaded all helpful and insightful info I could -
about 50 pages. I could tell from just looking at her that it was a
go. I think she was impressed with the
attentiveness factor and the ease of getting things for herself mainly chores I
hate to do. After some long talks we drew up a contract and
ordered The Curve. Her job was to enforce the rules ,interpret and
make up if needed. She must be fair but actively trip my
efforts by strict enforcement and intense teasing. My rules are numerous I
must keep them memorized she of course has a copy. I must
receive the 6 mandatory days with penalty time occurring if I come (30
days of lockup), argue (2 days), nag for any thing, incomplete chore,
lose a challenge (maybe multiple day depending on challenge) refuse or ask
for in any way access to my body at anytime, no tickling ,
disturb sleep and all my things must be in proper place at all times( any of
these can add 1 day ) . I never know when I will be chase except
it will be at least one day in between no more than 30 days and I cannot ask
when, without penalty nor can I remind her that I am due to get out.
I am in my 3rd session now I thought it may
lose it's thrill but not so far
I am frustrated worse than ever. My current challenge is I must read a
long detailed article on women's needs I get a day added on for every 2
questions I miss when tested. Also I must have 2 bathrooms spotless,
clean the garbage, and take care of the pets before she gets home, then take
care of my work - I know I don't stand a chance. On a daily basis I
want sex attention all the time but too much is nagging (which I received an
extra day yesterday) like a moth to a flame I go. Only 3 days and I
am a mess constantly filling tubed chastity with no fulfilment .
To make things *harder* my wife is becoming more creative, stricter and
enjoying it more. Just this morning she squeezed my nipples while giving out
the duties saying, "do a good job on the bath I'll be messing it up tonight
so you can do a better job tomorrow ". Right now I would give
anything for release especially after last night's tease session but take
nothing for the experience hope this helps some as much as it has helped us
My Mistress installed my chastity device on the 24th November 2002. It was
about a week for me to get used to wearing it 24 hours a day, 7 days a
week. The next several weeks were a combination of excitement and
frustration and wanting to masturbate. When ever I saw a female walking down the
street or sitting on a train on my way home I would quickly get a hard on , but
because I was caged up the feelings of bondage and frustration were wonderful.
After about six weeks of being permanently caged up my cock was nearly always
semi hard. This was making lines in my cock where the bars run down the length
of it. By this time I was having a battle with my thoughts trying not to
think of sex, not looking at any mags, or read any stories on the internet.
being permanently excited is a great feeling, being able to become fully
hard at a moments notice and as the weeks went by becoming more able to control
my bondage was a great feeling. My Mistress when we meet, usually once a
week would sometimes make me masturbate without coming and that is the worse
torture than any other. The worst kind of S/M pain.
Then on the tenth week after my imprisonment I was allowed to come, there was
a pile on the carpet!
It is now 20 weeks my CB2000 has been on. I don't want it ever to come
off it is the closeness I have ever been to my Mistress, always there to remind
me of Her wonderful being.
My life as a chastity slave began fifteen years ago when Mistress learned
how roman slaves were infibulated by their masters to control their sexual
Mistress decided that I would be controlled in a similar way. My foreskin was
pierced on both sides and two small rings were fitted. As soon as the piercings
had healed the small rings were replaced by a slightly larger ring which passed
through both holes. This ring was later replaced by another ring, and by
increments the diameter and thickness of the rings was
increased. My current ring is 8mm thick and 40mm in diameter.
Mistress has also added rings to the shaft of my penis which in effect resemble
the "gates of hell". This makes erections very uncomfortable and
penetrative sex impossible. I also wear a heavy scrotum collar linked to the
ring in my foreskin by a short chain. Its weight is a constant reminder of my
position as a chastity slave.
I've worn this current device for over a year, only removing it for washing and
shaving. Mistress milks me once a month without removing the device and I'm
expected to give Mistress pleasure with my hands and mouth when ever she
requires it. However my own orgasm is denied to me.
As a result I'm constantly in a state of heightened sexual awareness.
My devotion to Mistress is total and I am happy to commit the rest of my life to
Slaveboy 09/12/2001 - see other photos on
"Home Made" page
I wear a chastity
device for short periods before visiting my Mistress. I live about 100 miles
away from her, before each visit I send the key by registered
mail to her and on receipt she emails instructions as to a password I must write
above my device and then email a picture of it to ensure I have locked
myself in (it is made from half a handcuff so it snaps shut) usually about 3/4
days prior to each visit. on arrival she removes it to wash me, while I am
restrained and then I have to serve her in any way she desires (never being
allowed to cum of course) then before I leave she locks me back in the device
and posts the key back to me after a few days. For neglecting my duties
one time, she left it for a week b4 sending me the key
hope that by responding to the following questions on your "lock me
up" page, the answers I can give will assist any couple, whether married or
partners, gay or hetro, to enter into what can be one of the greatest assets in
any relationship where trust and love between each other can flourish
unhindered by thoughtless, selfishness and disregard for the other person.
"What is Chastity?" ...No greater gift can be received than the
pleasure of giving to another. Giving yourself completely to your partner is an
experience bordering on the spiritual. As a husband in a loving and strong
marriage, locked up on a 24hour/7 days a week basis, religiously enforced
chastity has become the foundation stone of our marriage's strength although the
closest it gets to religion is my almost monastic vow of chastity, poverty and
"What do I enjoy most about my Key holder having Control?"... Before
my enforced chastity, I used to behave like a complete arsehole towards my
brilliant wife. She's taken away the root cause of my problem, and imposed a
more feminine regime for me in the home. After years of macho posturing, I now
appreciate women for what they really are...human beings like me! A different if
superior gender yes, but real people none the less! I am grateful to my wife for
wiping the dirt from my eyes, and revealing a whole fantastic new way of living
in a very real world, and even if I wanted to, she has the keys and I could
never revert to being the nasty fool I was.
"What is the best thing about being locked in?"...Freedom!! Freedom to
give my wife full obedient attention without my own more basic instincts trying
to kick in and diverting my attention away from her!
"Where do you keep the keys?"... My lovely wife keeps the keys, so I
have no idea. In the early days of imposed chastity, to my cost, I was caught by
my wife searching the house for them. She was singularly unimpressed by my
claims that I needed some relief, and my attempts to circumvent her authority
were dealt with very firmly indeed. I don't search any more, and I am forbidden
"What is my favourite Chastity Belt/Device?"....Of the three items my
wife uses on me,( a "Fetters" lockable steel and leather cage: a
CB-2000 and a Tollyboy.) my personal preference is for the Tollyboy Chastity
Belt, which is what
I am kept in most of the time. However, my wife uses on me what she pleases and
I may not complain. The Tollyboy prohibits even the smallest erection for
me, so I can devote my full attention to satisfying my wife's
instructions/desires and carry out whatever my duties are at any time. I find it
comfortable but relentless. For me it is inescapable, for again in the early
days of my "re-organisation"(!!) I did try. I also failed! My one not
so much a complaint as a dread, is the lockable anal plug that can be attached
to the Tollyboy. My wife uses the anal plug as a punishment and disciplinary
device to maintain my "enthusiasm" for my domestic duties. Now, I
positively HATE ironing and shopping, but I manfully don't complain anymore!!
Try walking round Sainsbury's with a sore backside. You soon get the message
that what is mostly a pain in the arse for women to do daily, a bloke WILL now
do daily! The CB-2000 thankfully doesn't have such an attachment,
but it unfortunately permits me a semi erection, though no possibility to
orgasm. This semi erection can be jolly uncomfortable and my wife sometimes
teases me to this state to remind me that nothing is coming my way!
"What's the longest time you've worn your belt/device?"... I work away
from home all over the world for extended periods of up to four months. The last
time I was away for three and a half months and my wife had locked me in the
CB2000 with the disposable airport-proof plastic lock. When I was entering
airport security to fly out to work, I was full of embarrassed
trepidation, but I overcame the fear of "discovery" by realising
"Who is most important in my life? An airport security man doing his duty,
or my wife?" There is a very short answer to that my wife. If I had, say,
cut off the plastic lock in the toilets before being security checked, what a
trust I would have destroyed! So it stayed firmly where my darling wife had put
it, remaining there until I got home three and a half months later. Yes, hygiene
was a problem but not insurmountable. It was more tedious than anything else,
involving cotton buds and very careful showering, but here I am alive and well
and (thankfully!) locked back into the Tollyboy. Though I shower twice a day, I
am released from the Tollyboy temporarily about every ten days to a fortnight
for complete hygiene and cleaning the belt before it is refitted. If your
question re-phrased really asks "how often do you get to orgasm?", I
can only say I get "relief" when my wife permits. I have been on
vacation at home for nearly six weeks now, after my last tour of duty, and I
have been permitted once.
Am I happy with enforced male chastity as a way of life? The answer has to be
"Yes. Entirely!" My wife, who suffered patiently for years my
intolerable swaggering macho posturing and general bad behaviour all because she
loves me and our family, she means more to me than I'd care to put down here.
Male Chastity as a way of life has improved me beyond recognition, and I am
thoroughly grateful to my brilliant wife for introducing it into our marriage.
She has made me a new bloke and I'm proud of her for doing it!
So, to anyone considering the beneficial aspects of enforced chastity, and it
must be strictly enforced...no whining to get out of it when it gets realised by
the belt wearer that it IS for keeps... Recommended!! Do it now!! And for the
belt wearer? Stick it out!! You'll love the changes!
- Anonymous Tollyboy Wearer
my case Tollyboy chastity belts are brilliant for 24 hours/7days a week,
however, my wife insists on me wearing a CB-2000 cage when we are on holiday. It
is airport-proof of course, but I find I achieve uncomfortable semi-erections
when locked in it
my wife's demands with the Tollyboy belt I am denied even the smallest erection
and I feel more able to pay complete attention to my wife's satisfaction and
demands, any failure to satisfy or obey her (whether for her pleasure,
housework, gardening, washing-up, ironing, etc.) results in an anal
punishment plug being locked into me, which, like the plug you can use with the
Tollyboy belt, is totally irremovable except by my key holder wife. This is not
possible with the CB-2000 (thankfully I may add).
wife's insistence on total chastity for me with very infrequent release, hygiene
excepted, has altered our marriage vastly for the better. I was an arrogant,
heavy drinker, loud mouthed, verbally insulting verging on the cruel; a real
bastard to be truthful. Led by my most brilliant wife I am now a loving caring
man as a result of enforced chastity, and the previously suppressed real person
in me which hid behind macho swaggering has been brought out by my wife's
insistence on chastity for me. I see her as the greatest person I know. Enforced
male chastity makes our marriage a loving and strong relationship".
Review CB2000 by "Bluerose"
I choose the CB 2000 as my main chastity restraint
for a number of reasons. The main one being its size and the fact that it is
very light and it not made of metal so when you have the tamper proof numbered
plastic lock on in stead of the metal padlock it won't set those nasty airport
metal detectors off . Also it doesn't go round the hips, which is a real plus
for me as I have a medical condition that makes it not a good idea to have any
force on my hips.
Before I bought it I read a lot about peoples experiences with it. Some people
have been able to pull out of it but I have tried and tried and so far I have
been unable to in fact I have been unable to even touch my cock.
Some people have also complained about rubbing or chaffing luckily I have
experienced no rubbing or chaffing, but I think that has a lot to do with being
careful about keeping it dry and apply some talc a few
times a day, or Vaseline also works. After bathing its a good idea to dry the
cock and balls with a hair dryer, that way you can make sure you get every
little bit dry because if you don't you will know about it!
When I get aroused my cock can't become fully erect and this can course some
discomfort but no pain as such. The main discomfort is caused by the cock
swelling in the cage which puts pressure on the cock and balls. The overwhelming
feeling of frustration at being very turned on and hard and not being able to
touch it is unbelievable and some times unbearable.... but that's the fun of it
but then one of my main kinks is being restrained.
I don't have access to the key. My Mistress has that and she decides when the
restraint will be removed so she can "use" what is locked in it. There
is very little point wearing a chastity restraint and having the key yourself is
I also have a "real" chastity belt I got from Eagle Leather in
Melbourne its a one of a kind original . Its metal and it attached round the
waist with chains and has a metal plate that covers the arse and one that covers
the genitals . It is what most people would assume a chastity belt would look
like, And it works well but as it is big and bulky and you are unable to shit
with it on with out great effort and a little mess it is really only any good
for show and short term wear and really no good for airports but as a bullet
proof shield for the genitals it can't be beat....
Bluerose the voice of the uncommon man.
"Hang-on a minute lads, I've got a great idea..."
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